Hello love and life, I dont know if i can go ahead and marry my boyfriend. He pollutes the air seriously at night whenever we are asleep. The smell is so crazy that i had to run out one night. The annoying part is whenever I confront him, he gets so defensive and claim im over exaggerating. I saw a chat with his brother saying hell be proposing to me on my birthday which he is funding. Hes rich and nice but I cant stand the mess. Hello Anonymous Writer, Understandably, I get why you are unhappy with your boyfriend and your soon-to-be-fiancee over what I describe as a disgusting act. However, I do not think that you should separate away from him because of the pollution act. It’s good that you have confronted him on the issue. However, from your description of events, I thought your approach was feisty. I think you should call him back, apologise for your attitude and then plead with him to sit for a conversation with you. Then, murky inform him of your disapproval of his foul behaviour and then suggest he goes to the hospital for a check up or better still, a stool test in order to detect possible medical issues, which can be treated. It would be disastrous for you to throw away a potentially glamorous future over a minor event that can be amicably resolved. GCN Need Love & Life Gurus advice? Send your mails to firstname.lastname@example.org and help is sure to come your way.