After five days of stress, both on the road and at work, it is necessary to have a good time this weekend. Sex is a sure fire way to relax the bones, muscles and mind.
Below are some new styles you can try with your partner this weekend:
Do It: Lie back with your legs resting on each of your partner’s shoulders.
Why: This sex position is awesome because when you raise your legs, it narrows the vagina and helps target your G-spot.
Make It Hotter: Ask your partner to start rocking you in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion. That should bring the penis into direct contact with your G-spot.
Do It: Your partner sits on a chair or the edge of the bed; you face him, seated on his lap.
Why: During this sex position, you’re in control of the angle and depth of the entry and thrust. Being seated adds support, so it’s great for marathon sex sessions.
Make It Hotter: Let your fingers (and hands) do the talking. Once seated, you can put your hands anywhere on your body or your partner’s to make things more interesting.
Do It: Lie on your right side; your partner kneels, straddling your right leg and curling your left leg around his left side.
Why: With this sex position, you get the deeper penetration of doggy style while still being able to make that important eye contact.
Make It Hotter: Get your partner to rub your clit. Because, duh.
Do It: Lie facedown on the bed, legs straight, hips slightly raised.
Why: This sex position creates a snug fit, so your partner’s penis will seem even larger.
Make It Hotter: Some shallow thrusts and deep breathing will help the romp last longer.
Do It: Lie down on your stomach, and have your partner lie down on top of you and slide in from behind.
Why: This position allows for super-deep penetration, and a snug fit which can feel great for you and your partner.
Make It Hotter: You can reach back and wrap your hand around his shaft to help control how deep he gets or change up the angle of your butt for the same effect.
Do It: You straddle him, wrapping your legs around his body (he keeps his knees unlocked and thighs spread slightly). He stands and supports you in his arms. You can start on the bed and have him pick you up without disengaging. (Or for the truly bold, you can hop aboard from standing position!)
Why: This is the position of every steamy romance movie…a.k.a, it’s a must-try.
Make It Hotter: Have him push you up against a wall—very carefully.
Do It: This is a modified doggy-style. Get on your hands and knees, then, keeping hips raised, rest your head and arms on the bed.
Why: This sex position creates deeper penetration—and gives you a chance to rest on a pillow.
Make It Hotter: Use your hands to stimulate your clitoris.
Stand and Deliver
Do It: With both of you standing, you bend over at the waist; he enters you from behind.
Why: Bending over during this sex position helps make the vaginal walls tighter and increases the intensity of the friction.
Make It Hotter: Have your partner tickle your clitoris with a free hand, or loosely tie your hands together with a silky scarf.
Do It: You lie on your back while your partner straddles you. He then gently inserts his penis through the tight opening created by your semi-closed legs.
Why: Tightness increases the intensity of the penetration.
Make It Hotter: Have him fondle your breasts or gently hold down your wrists for a little bondage action.
Do It: Standing on one foot, face your partner and wrap your other leg around his waist while he helps support you.
Why: This sex position allows for quality face time and connecting.
Make It Hotter: If you’re really flexible, try putting the raised leg on his shoulder for even deeper penetration.
Do It: Your partner enters you from the missionary position, then slides his chest and legs off your body so his pelvis is in the same location but his limbs form an “X” with yours.
Why: You feel more of his body in motion with this sex position.
Make It Hotter: Use this unique angle to massage his back, butt, or legs as he thrusts. He’ll go crazy (as will you, watching him).
Do It: While he sits on the bed or a chair, back yourself into his lap and spoon each other while seated.
Why: You can’t see your partner during this sex position, which means fantasizing is easier and can add to the excitement.
Make It Hotter: Tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor so you can grip him and keep him hard AF.
Do It: Your partner sits, legs bent, leaning back on his hands and forearms. You do the same and then inch toward him until you make contact.
Why: You’ll both feel really connected looking at each other. Increase your stimulation by grinding your clitoris against his pelvis.
Make It Hotter: Slide ice cubes down his chest and let the cold water collect at the base of his pelvis.
Scoop Me Up
Do It: Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while your partner slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind. (You may also know this as spooning.)
Why: This sex position allows for more skin-to-skin contact, increasing your stimulation.
Make It Hotter: Have your partner place his hands on your shoulders to increase the intensity and deepness of the thrust.
Do It: Near the edge of a bed or bench, rest on the hip and forearm of one side and press your thighs together. Your partner stands and straddles you, entering from behind.
Why: Keeping your legs pressed together during this sex position allows for a tighter hold on him as he thrusts.
Make It Hotter: Instead of letting your partner do all the work, try thrusting your hips slightly to match the tempo.
The Sea Shell
Do It: Lie back with your legs raised all the way up and your ankles crossed behind your own head. He enters you from a missionary position.
Why: Your hands are free to work your clitoris. As you should.
Make It Hotter: Have him “ride high,” rubbing his pubic bone against your clitoris, or “ride low,” directly stimulating your G-spot with the head of his penis.
Do It: Lie on your back with your legs raised and folded over so that your ankles are on either side of your head, while he squats and dips his penis in and out of your vagina.
Why: Aside from getting that eye contact, the extra rush of blood into your head will increase the ecstasy.
Make It Hotter: Have him dribble chocolate syrup or something sweet into your mouth (yes, really). It gets more of your senses involved, amping up the entire experience.
Do It: Your partner sits on the edge of the bed and you sit on him, facing away.
Why: This sex position will hit the spot…as in, your G-spot. Meanwhile, you can use your hands to stimulate his scrotum or perineum.
Make It Hotter: Bring your knees closer to your chest, supporting your feet on the bed.
Do It: From missionary position, you raise your legs and extend them straight out (forming a “V”).
Why: This allows for good body contact with the vulva.
Make It Hotter: Try grabbing your ankles. It can give you stability and an added stretch to boost the sensation.
Do It: While you lie on your back, raise your right leg so he can position himself between your legs at a 90-degree angle and enter you. Your legs will form the tines of a spork (that’s a spoon-fork combo, ICYDK). You can do this with him facing you or facing your back. Options!
Why: From the spork position, you can lift your top leg and support it by resting it on your partner’s shoulder. From here, you can easily stimulate your clitoris using your fingers while he is inside you.
Make It Hotter: Synchronize your breathing. One of you takes the lead and the other follows so that you inhale and exhale together. The coordinated rythm opens an unspoken dialogue of intimacy.
Do It: You don’t have to do this one on a table—any surface that hits your partner at crotch height will do. Have him enter you while you’re sitting or lying at the edge of a table, counter, or maybe even your bed.
Why: This position is great for face-to-face action. Plus, if you two are drastically different heights, this is a great option, since it puts you both at the same height.
Make It Hotter: Try bringing your legs down and placing your feet on his chest, in front of his shoulders. This allows you to control the tempo and depth of thrusts.
Do It: From the missionary position, without disengaging, turn together onto your sides, using your arms to support your upper bodies.
Why: You get the same full-body press and can gaze into each other’s eyes.
Make It Hotter: Try intertwining your legs with his or fondling him down below.
Do It: Your partner sits and you sit on top of him, facing away.
Why: It helps you regulate the pace and intensity of the thrusts.
Make It Hotter: Try doing it on the stairs or the edge of the tub. Takes a bit of talent…but hey, practice makes perfect, amirite?
Do It: Your partner sits cross-legged (yoga/pretzel-style), you sit in his lap facing him. Wrap your legs around him and hug each other for support.
Why: Best for tantric sex. Rocking, not thrusting, is the key when it comes to this very intimate position.
Make It Hotter: Lock into each other’s deep gaze to put some extra “oh” into the big O.
The Good Ex
Do It: Sit on the bed facing each other with legs forward. Lift your partner’s right leg over your left and lift your right leg over his left. Come together so he can enter you. Now both of you lie back, your legs forming an X. Slow, leisurely gyrations replace thrusting.
Why: Prolonged slow sex that will build your arousal. Shallow thrusts stimulate the nerve endings in the head of his penis.
Make It Hotter: Reach out and hold hands to pull together for pelvic thrusting. Also, take turns alternatively sitting up and lying back without changing the rhythm.
The Lazy Man
Do It: Place pillows behind your partner’s back and have him sit on the bed with legs outstretched. Now straddle his waist, feet on the bed. Bend your knees to lower yourself onto him, using one hand to direct his penis in. Just by pressing on the balls of your feet and releasing, you can raise and lower yourself onto his shaft as slowly or as quickly as you please.
Why: This position puts you in control, and maintains plenty of intimacy. Think of his penis as a masturbatory tool, something to rub and stimulate your clitoris with and against.
Make It Hotter: From this position, you both can lie back into the Spider position or its more challenging variation, the Good Ex.
Do It: Lie on your back and have your partner straddle you facing away. Lift your legs and wrap them around his back to elevate your pelvis so he can enter you. Grab his butt to help him slide up and back. Add a little massage action to your grip.
Why: You get a prime view of his cute butt. Plus, from this position, you have easy access to fondle his testicles. Not to mention, his pelvis is perfectly positioned to grind against your clit.
Make It Hotter: Have him spin around into missionary style to face you while trying to stay inserted. Then switch positions, this time with you on top and facing away.
Do It: Have your partner sit cross-legged and climb into his lap, facing him, with your legs wrapped around his back. Have your partner enter you and grind up against his pelvis.
Why: This position allows for some major face-to-face intimacy. Plus there’s plenty of room for creativity in this position—like stimulating different erogenous zones on each others’ upper bodies, like the head, neck, and face.
Make It Hotter: Ask him to lick your nipples and let his hands roam. And roam…and roam. (You get the idea.)