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‘My Wife Applies Anointing Oil On Her Mouth Before Giving Me Blow Job’

Hello Love and Life,

My name is Emma. Before I got married to my wife, I did not touch her during our courtship, we only kissed before getting married.

But I have a problem: my wife is too spiritual even in bed. Before she gives me a blow job, she will apply anointing oil all over her mouth, and when I start with her, all I hear is “je..s, je..s, forgive me, forgive me”; “Je..s, he is killing me, save me, save me” and it is a complete turn off for me.

Most times I don’t even ejaculate because I get turned off. I have asked her to talk crazy during sex but she keeps calling Jesus. How do I stop her?

 

Hello Emma,

Wow! I really sympathise with you over your situation. I cannot imagine what you go through when you want to get going in “the other room” and you are then confounded by such drama.

From your narration, it is obvious that your wife did not have any sexual escapade before she got married to you (which is a good thing). However, it seems she did not get a proper sex education before becoming your wife.

Knowing your wife’s orientation, you need to approach this issue with a bit of tact. You must be gentle with her at all times even when she displays certain behaviour(s) that you may be unhappy with. Probably before the time for “action”, you should sit your wife down and explain to her that you both are legally married and, therefore, oral sex is permissible. Contrary to her belief, oral sex between a married man and woman is NOT A SIN and no religious dictate, as far as I know, forbids it.

For the anointing oil part, she may be sanctifying her mouth over what is not an illegal offence. However, she might indirectly be also utilising the oil as a lubricant to aid the easy sucking of the penis and its subsequent penetration into her vagina.

You do not, therefore, need to get turned off, Emma. You knew the kind of lady you married and changing her orientation will certainly take some time. If there is anything she more than needs from you, it is that you become a supportive companion during her sex education orientation. You basically have to teach her the A-Z of the skills needed for satisfactory pleasure in “the other room”. The quicker you accept and begin tutorials for your wife, the better for your marriage.

And please, do not venture out to play away game. Stick to your wife, teach her the necessary things and be compassionate with her and you will surely have a different tale to tell in about six months time.

Yours,

GCN

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