Love and Life, help me ooo
My name is Moses, i have a woman i love. The problem is that i do not know how to explain what i feel for her. We attend the same church and are both choristers. I’m afraid she might be disappointed because people call us brother and sister due to our closeness. I’m 10 years older than her. Please help me.
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Where is it stated that it is a crime for a man to love a female member, especially a chorister of the church he attends? I am adverse to such a stipulation because it does not exist at all.
One thing you must learn of this life is that you must live according to your own dictates and not that of the crowd. The crowd cannot be your agenda setting vehicle when you have your own life to live.
So my dear friend, cast your mind off negative vibes of people. Also, release the shyness away from your heart and approach the woman you love. You could invite her to dinner one evening and express your true feelings for her. Let her, through your actions and words, discover your fondness for her. After that, you can then succinctly pop up the question of being in a relationship with her.
Do not expect an immediate answer. She will likely attempt to rebuff and may even ask the same question you have asked about the reaction of church members. Convince her by replying with the same answer that I have given you: Live your life on your own terms.
Since from your description, you both are close friends, I envisage that she would respond favourably to your request, and then you can be together with the woman that you have always dreamed of.